Sexy VS Soleha - Which Men Choose ?

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Sexy or Soleha,would be my entry today."Ala,ko pun dulu suka berseksi juga masa zaman bujang dulu kan?Jadi ndak payah lah ko tegur aku"..My cousin said angrily..Yes!,indeed I used to be so on my single life once.I dressed up until shows my cleavage,thighs and curves in my body to everybody.And I do not care about other people's views about myself and even my own family.Is not that my parents never advise, scold or reprimand me if dressed so in public..But I just ignored them...Am so bad,isn't it?

But it's all an old story that I have buried right since I got married. I've  changed,and want to repent.Then I realized that being sexy does not guarantees the future, but it will harm themselves.In fact,no man will respect ourselves,and only played for a bad purpose..

HarmLess Fun Or Sexual Harassment?

Rika (Unreal Name) is actually pretty jealous when I heard a story that quite a lot of guys are interested in becoming a Facebook Friends Rani (Unreal Name).Understandably Rani is sexy. Her clothes were that good. Dressed? Eum, don't you ask. Wherever Rani stepped, the eyes of the boys seemed never out of it. In contrast to Rika, with a veil, her whole body covered with a cloth bandage, and not many men want to glance at it, although there are some also who intend to approach it.

When a sexy woman appeared, usually men always react. There are only looking at it boldly without any comment. There was a whistle, and even sang love songs to attract attention, but desperate to talk and was well acquainted there. From the various facts that happened on the field we can see that the sexy woman is always cause a reaction on the part of the ADAM.

If so, does it mean that you have to perform a new section can be ogled by men? Yes, of course! Butttttt ... looks sexy does not necessarily guarantee you will be selected.

Well I've survey a several men about it and At least they expressed by following.,

"Well, no man do not like seeing beautiful women. All well liked. But we just like to see. That's it. When to get married, well wait a minute. We also do not want to arbitrarily select a pair. Must see first weight, seeds, its ancestor. " said Fahmi (28).

"I honestly love to see a woman dressed in a mini, but to be my wife? Well, obviously not one of them who would I choose. Because I certainly do not want to have a wife who likes to show off the beauty in the public. Her beauty may only be for me alone." said Jerick (30).

"Women's okay to be sexy, but not to marry. I am more interested in a serious relationship with a qualified woman 'inside', rather than rely solely on outward appearances alone." firmly Zainal (27).

After knowing the opinions of the man on top, it is clear to us, that outward appearances are not everything. We may be pretty, but if the behavior we are not beautiful, then any man would not be willing to resume thrusting the ring as we expected.

Sexy appearance, or rather interesting, actually remains important, because men like to see the beauty of a woman. However, it does not mean that they would appreciate a woman who likes to dress mini. For most men, women who want to cover her nakedness is more honorable than those who like showing off your body in public.

Then what kind of woman who became hunted men to eventually marry? Soleha woman who has the attitude of pious and noble heart. It is they who can attract the attention of men to serve, as dead as lively pair.

Is it YOU ?

This entry has nothing to do with anyone,whether alive or dead. It is reflection only for us, especially my women friends out there who read this.

My apologies if I'm wrong and offensive to anyone feelings upon make this entry..Happy 12th Ramadhan:)

30 Secret Of Woman’s Love

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Yesterday we had an enrty about knowing secrets of the Women's Love.And this time I wanna share about 30 Secret Women's Love.This article is taken from my facebook, and I have changed a bit and add a few facts.Nearly all the fact I agree and the rest is not much lol..:)



1. When the woman told you she is sad, but she did not shed any tears, it means that she was crying in her heart.

2. If she ignores you after you hurt her, you better give her time to calm down again before you criticize him by saying sorry.

3. Women's difficult to find the thing she hated most about those who love him (because of the many women who was heartbroken when the relationship was broken on the way).

4. If a woman falls in love with a man, that man will always be in his mind while he was out with another man.

5. When the man she loves staring into her eyes sharp, he will be melted like chocolate!

6. Women love compliments, but do not always know how to accept compliments.

7. If you do not like the girl who likes you half to death, gently push her love, not aggression, because there is a spirit inside of  women that you will not know if she already made the decision, she will do anything.

8. If a girl started distancing themselves from you after you reject her love, let her for a while. If you still want to consider her a friend, try to greet her gently.

9. Women like to express what they think. Muzik, poetry, painting and writing is the easiest way they express their hearts content.

10. Do not tell women that they are not useful.

11. Being too serious can turn off the mood of women.

12. When the first man she loved in silence to give a positive response, for example, contacted by telephone, the girl would be indifferent as if not interested, but as soon as the phone algae are placed, she would scream and not liking to ten minutes, all his friends will know the news.

13. smiles gives a thousand meanings for women. So do not smile at random.

14. If you love a woman, try to start with friendship. Then let her know you better.

15. If a woman gives a thousand reasons every time you take out, leave her because she was not interested in you.

16. But if at the same time he was awaiting a call from you or contact you, please continue your efforts to mesmerize her.

17. Do not occasionally consider what she feels. Ask her yourself!


18. After a girl falls in love, she would often wonder and asked herself why is this man I did not see earlier.

19. If you are looking for the lookout, the most romantic way to seduce a girl, try your hand hard to read the books of love.

20. When a class pictures come out each time, the first thing her to do is to find the woman who stood beside the boy she loves, then herself.

21. The former boyfriend will stand in her mind but the man she loves now will be in that special place in her heart!

22. The greeting 'Hi' is enough cheer her heart for the day.

23. Good friend who knew what she was feeling and going through.

24. Most women hate men who befriend them just to tackle their most beautiful friend.

25. Love means devotion, care, honesty and happiness without any compromise.

26. All women want a man who loves them wholeheartedly.
27. Weapons women are tears!

28. Women love when people she loves holding occasional surprise for her (gifts, flowers or just a romantic greeting card). They will feel overwhelmed and feel that she loved by the sincere men. With this she will not doubt about you.

29. Women easily fall in love with men who care for them and good on her.

30. Actually simple romance because what she wants to feel loved and cared for nothing but a full life.

Secret Of Woman’s Love

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Sure many are wondering what the Secret Of Woman’s Love.Is woman’s love based on looks and wealth of a man?Want to know? make sure you read this entry from beginning to end..:)

The size of a woman’s love is not based on appearance or mere property of men.But sincerity, good communication, concern, loving and caring attitude of men, able to melt the hearts of women.But do all men's hearts understand the instinct of a woman? Most men difficult to determine the needs and desires hidden in the heart of a woman if the man does not learn from the attitude, desire and instinct psychology of women themselves.Understand the needs and feelings of a woman before you judge her own self.

Its a noble love, but instead relied on the appearance of understanding, appreciation of women's feelings, love and loyalty is more valuable than everything else. Sometimes a woman crying alone because the thought of a man she loved once, but men was like no matter rarely even appreciate the love that poured out.

When a woman falls in love with a man, that man will always be in her mind even when he was out with another man that time.If you do not like the girl who likes you,gently rejects her love….”Sorry, I can not get to like you because I love another woman.”,no need to curse or scold her.”Sorry!! look in the mirror first..euwww”….When a woman has to make decisions, she is willing to do anything.

If you love a woman, tried to start it with  a friendship.Then let her get to know you more better.If a woman gives a thousand reasons each time you asked her to go out, leave her alone because she was not interested with you.Don’t you waste your time on those who are not willing.But if at the same time she continues to await a call or sms from you, continue efforts to mesmerize her.

Remember! most women hate men who befriend to her merely to be captured or lured their friend that is more beautiful.Being too serious can turn off the taste of women. By give a smile is a thousand meanings for women.Just saying "Hi" just enough cheer to her heart.

Love means devotion, care, honesty, mutual respect for one another and happiness without any compromise.All women want a man who loves them wholeheartedly. Women easily fall in love with the man and the good care of herself. Actually very easy to take the women's hearts because of what she wants to feel loved and cared for nothing but vengeance.But many men have used this method with  bad intentions against women…

Lastly Do Appreciated Women who have been or ever loved you so far..

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Reason Why Women Loves Make-Up ?

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Why women loves make-up ? topic on my entry today.There is also some relatives and friends who asked me the same thing." Kenapa perlu make-up?,kan dah cantik tue " or " Ndak payahlah vha mekap,menggoda la tue" or this " Ko tue sudah bergelar isteri,tak perlu bercantik tau pakai mekap pun"..for me personally,this statement is not true at all.Nothing’s wrong with a women especially women who have been called as a wife like me to apply make-up, so the face looks more lively and energetic, does not seem looks very dull.There's No need to put pressed powder or foundation to 18 inches thick on the face,then put a simple makeup..then you go girl..

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Some women applied make-up is not to win or want to seduce men.But there is something very difficult to be explained that only women who know it.Sometimes women make-up for the right comforted their hearts and to satisfy her feelings.in other words “ just for fun “ would like to try new things .And most importantly, 

has nothing to do with the men.

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This is the way I feel about makeup, and how I think other women grow up to love it as well.The feeling I get when I open up a new package of makeup is hard to describe. To say I am obsessed is too harsh, but I definitely adore my makeup. I enjoy the artistry that goes into creating my look for some of occassions. I enjoy putting together colors and highlighting my best features. Hiding my worst features is something that also gives me pleasure. Mascara, Eye Shadow, Lipstick,Lip Shiner  or Blush, it’s all wonderful. If someone gave me a gift of makeup I feel like they know me. They really thought deeply about the things that I love and knew it would brighten my day.I apply make-up only at times when there is an special occassion or event, I will attend..and depends on my mood at that time.

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As we know ,almost all women have the habit of bathing, and dressing up, daub minimal powder and comb a hair. It was not a woman confident enough to leave the house or move without makeup. Maybe you'll say, make - up to look pretty . But it turns out the real reason is not that simple. Actually there is a push from the inside that makes women love to linger in front of the mirror and makeup. 

Indeed, some women apply makeup to look beautiful and charming,also to cover all the ugliness in the face of those who actually,those who have unhealthy skin, such as facial acne, oily and so on.You are on your way to growing up. When you wake up and your face is broken out horribly then you know you can cover it up, and not feel insecure all day. You can face whatever.

A study conducted by experts from France that was published in the Journal of Cosmetic Science. Mentioned, every woman likes makeup grooming because it stimulates the activity of three our senses as  Touch, Smell, and Sight.The senses then trigger 2 distinct psychological results,which reduces anxiety or to seduce, which is more about asserting one's social power. Therefore, the way we use cosmetics is based in large part on our psychological profile.

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When doing make-up, our visual senses are pampered by the beauty created by the activities of screw eyes, lips, and cheeks that we do. Second, depending on the type of cosmetics we wear, dress up also stimulates the sense of smell. Some kinds of cosmetics, such as powder, foundation, lipstick too has a distinctive and delicious fragrance.
Third, the sense of touch is also stimulated, especially when the process of applying cosmetics. Remember how the taste sensation is generated when we wring blush on the cheeks, or moisture glossed lips after the lipstick?However, the most interesting findings from these studies are cosmetic psychological impact for the wearer.

Many have said, the woman who loves make-up are those who have no confidence in themselves,Is this true?For me, Its not it is .. but with the confidence that is encouraging women to make-up.I don’t know  the opinion of other women, this for me alone..ok

I also had consulted with the other women about their views on this topic and they said,"There is a mixture of expectation, encouragement and ambition” and this “Make-up contributes to building relationships with others and feelings of pleasure in women”

So men out there,you don’t have to dispute the women matter why they like makeup ?, why do they need to make up ? and etc.Because only women who would understand the women themselves.

Why you can agree??

Why you can not agree ?????

Feel free to share your opinion …

What Makes Women Falls In Love

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Most people gave a hard enough time to admitting that they've have fallen in love with another.Even a man,rarely go into detail about how their hearts were won.After you meet a woman and date her, you get to know her better. You probably start feeling closer to her and may even find yourself falling in love with her. But her feelings may still remain a mystery to you. You’re not even sure whether you’re doing things right.According to a some proverb"Action louder than speak"..hmm Right!..I have asked certain women about what makes them fall in love..
Here the juicy secret I found:

Compatability

“Talk about compatible,we had everything in common,from taste in to food to our hobbies.Without the suitability of both of them, love will not appear.Had happened to me before, I was starting to love a man,As if we were both quite similar.Until I found out that he did that all only just want to please me and he didn’t like anything we did together.She was a great actor and great hearbreaker..My Advice “ Be honest and search for the truly compatible with”.  ( Ana – 25 Tawau )

Display maturity

It’s always said that women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining about how immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations and your outlook on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about finances, or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your ability to think clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests presents itself. ( Tina – 23 Kuantan )

Pamper her

Make her feel good by keeping the romance alive in the relationship. You don’t have to spend a whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t adore flowers and gifts, but you can also do things that don’t cost a lot but can still enhance your relationship. Write her little notes or send her a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her you’re thinking about her and can’t wait to see her again. Be attentive and make her feel cherished and truly special. ( Sherry – 27 K.K )

Faithful

Don’t ever give her occasion to doubt you. Let her know that you have eyes only for her and the rest of the world takes a backseat. Let her sense your commitment to her and your relationship. Being able to trust someone and truly rely on him is a very powerful feeling. So many people profess deep feelings and then cheat on their partners. Don’t just tell her but show her that she can count on you. Women need to feel secure and once that is established, it takes the relationship to a higher level. ( Irene – 21 Sandakan )

Spent Time

Make it clear that you really treasure the time you spend with her, irrespective of what you’re doing together. And prove it! For instance, if she suddenly tells you she’d like to meet you because she’s finishing work early and you had something else lined up, cancel it for her. That doesn’t mean you cater to her to the exclusion of everything else, just that you sometimes sacrifice something you care about to be with her. If she begs you to come see a movie and you had plans with your buddies, do it for her and let her know subtly that you did. She will surely reward you! Women also love it if you do some girly stuff with them like shopping for lingerie, and aren’t afraid of sacrificing your masculinity in the process. It just makes you more of a man in their eyes! ( Diana – 20 K.L )

Compliment

You don’t have to go over the top always telling her how good she looks or how gorgeous her hair is or what a lovely outfit she’s wearing. A compliment has more effect when it is sincere, well timed and often, out of the blue. While a woman always loves hearing that she’s looking good, you can’t keep telling her that. It will lose its charm eventually. A compliment is valued when there is a surprise element to it. Telling her how witty you find her, how her intelligence turns you on, appreciating how thoughtful and generous she can be, or her gentle nature, all these are deeper compliments, which, when paid sincerely, make the recipient feel ten feet tall.

Some Sense Of Humor

Use humor as your biggest ally. If she enjoys your company and looks forward to seeing you again, you’re rapidly becoming an addiction, and that’s just what you’re aiming for. It’s not about making her laugh over your one-liners and finding you hilarious. It’s more about being on the same wavelength and enjoying the other’s sense of humor too. Or finding humor in similar situations or having a favorite serial or sitcom, which you talk about and cracks you up. Finding the same joke funny, or sharing a smile, draws you closer and makes you feel like kindred spirits. It’s a great feeling!

Turns Her On

And use it to advantage. Find out just the kind of touch that excites her, how she loves to be kissed. Don’t ever push her for sex or make her uncomfortable by coming on too strong. Let her see the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong rein on your passions if she decides she wants to call a stop to it. Let her set the pace, and ensure she understands that while your desires for her are strong, you will respect the limits she sets. Respect her and her body and she will appreciate you more for it. Women love it when they can see how much they turn you on and yet find you willing to take it slow for their sake. Also, when you make love to her, don’t always kiss her or caress her as a lead up to having sex. Do it just to make her feel special and because you want to convey that to her, and she will adore you for it.

Give Some Space

Don’t be possessive and make her account to you regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you trust her. Don’t expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let her have her own life too. Often when in a relationship, people make the mistake of spending every waking moment that they can manage together, and in the process, alienate themselves from friends and even lose their identity. Let her be her own person.

Being Thoughtful

You remember little things she told you, and remind her of it at opportune moments. It may be that she once mentioned she loves having chicken soup when she’s got a cold, and you land up with some when she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s told you how she adores a particular entrée at a popular restaurant and the next time you go there, you order it and surprise her. It makes her feel like you genuinely listen to her and take the trouble to act on it and make her happy.

Saying “ I Love You”

And of course, while showing her should give her the message, there’s a lot to be said for saying it loud and clear. Tell her how important she is to you. You might want to think about when you’re first going to tell her those three words. If it's too early in the relationship, she might be skeptical that you could feel so deeply so soon. And thereafter, it's not just choosing the right moment, but making every small moment count. You don’t have to wait only till you’re kissing her, or in bed. Saying it when it's least expected makes it all the more precious. She might be telling you something and the feeling just overwhelms you – tell her at that instant. She won’t mind being interrupted mid-sentence.

Many will say these women are hard to understand and unpredictable.But the fact that women are not as they think.Just do it the right way,These women are also very happy to actually be entertained, even the small things for men, but great meaning in them..But unfortunately, many men are not aware of these things and they only consider it trivial.As the saying goes .. “The women are very easy to be loved, but is also very easy to hurt”.
So guys out there.appreciate your women as they also appreciate you..


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Article Source : Caroline Divine , Magazine, Servay and Processed Back by me.

10 Types Of Women To Avoid When Dating

I've already written about the 10 types of men you don't want to date, so I think it's only fair that I cover the women too. These women cliches will easily make dating hell for you, with their shallowness, insecurities and otherwise clingy qualities. We've all got baggage and craziness underneath our calm exteriors, but some chicks take it a little far. You'd best look out for these, for your own sanity.

Thanx to Riswan Manap for the idea!

Here are the top 10 women to avoid dating:

1) Miss Gold Digger

   ✿ Obvious, but this can go deeper than you realize. Once she thinks you're worth something, she may stop doing anything including work and school because she thinks she's got it made. She'll steal your car if it's nicer than hers and will even put her bikini waxes on your credit card (awkward!).


2) Miss Cling-On

    ✿ She has an obsessive need to be chummy with all your friends, she shows up at your poker games with cucumber sandwiches, and whines if it's been 2 hours since she's seen you. Somehow she finds out about your golf games and just shows up on the green (to the horror of your friends). You know you've got a Cling-On when she's even willing to sit through a 16 hour Star Trek marathon to be next to you.

3) Miss "Loose"

    ✿ Also known as Party Girl (see reality television). She cheats on you when she's drunk and claims it doesn't count. Most nights end with her puking on your Vans, and it takes about 4 dates to realize this chick needs rehab (or Bret Michaels). She's usually wearing 20 pounds of makeup on her face and the lowest cut shirt you've ever seen--that's how she sucks you in!

4) Miss Crazy Moody

   ✿ Every day, she accuses you of something new, whether it's cheating, not caring enough or forgetting to tell her how pretty she is. She gets crazy jealous even when you glance at the elderly woman in front of you at the bank, and her moods range from insanely happy to insanely depressed...in a 45 minute period.

5) Miss Desperate

    ✿ This one NEEDS a boyfriend so bad that she's willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless dude on the corner. She aims to please, but in the way that she doesn't have her own personality...for fear of losing you. If you threaten to dump her, she'll either sob for hours and beg, or she'll name off all her guy friends who want to date her, just to make herself feel better.

Why Women are special?

Why Women are special