• I usually plan on setting aside one or two days a month to take my son on a date or do something special with him.,certainly in Sunday or Public Holidays. .
  • Spent time with my boy was the most happiest moment.
  • Every day should be mother,Mother is the biggest gift of god to all human being.Believe it or not she is the real queen she protect her child and not mean..So love your mother ..


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8 Signs Of Labor

Written by : Unknown | 12:14:00 PM | 0
This morning ,I just google about pregnancy. I was about to close to this, I got to know many things related many things and to make preparations to deal with it. Many new things that I know and learn about this pregnancy's matters. The more I read,the more I like to know,the more I felt nervous and the more I am excited.Plus nowadays, about a 10 Days more to go until my due date.So,I have to know the signs of labor so that I was not very soon to panic..

Conditions such as experienced by many woman in their first pregnancy. Sure, the delivery process is different for each woman, but the signs of labor are the same.

So by knowing the signs of labor will help us understand when it is appropriate to go to the hospital and what to do when the signs of labor has come to you.

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For the mother's who will give birth soon and to myself, the following are signs of labor;

Dropping

Dropping, also known as lightening, occurs when the baby descends into the pelvis. You may experience a subtle downward shift in the baby's position or you may notice an obvious "drop" of your belly. You may not notice anything at all. Second time moms will often not notice dropping until the onset of active labor.

I felt a sense of heaviness in my pelvic pressure right under my belly, making it more difficult to catch my breath.

Nesting

Some women will experience an intense urge to clean, organize their home, or other efforts to prepare for baby. This may range from a sudden urge to cook a month's worth of freezer meals to sorting out all the socks for the baby in the nursery to scrubbing the floors on hands and knees. Not all women experience nesting, but it is a common sign of labor nonetheless.

Nesting ? .. sounds so strange ,seems like animals to nesting pulak..hehehe..But it is true .. two weeks ago, I was packing baby's and other items to bring when I went into labor soon.

Cramps

Menstrual like cramps are another symptom of labor. Backache and leg cramps may also occur. As the baby drops into pelvic inlet he or she will put pressure on your nerves which can cause cramping in your legs.

Backache and leg cramps I already starting felt it and all i want is just about to lie down all day..Fortunately I still work .. On my duty off, everything I do at home just lying down..huhu!!

Pelvic pressure

You may notice an increase in pelvic pressure or a feeling like baby is going to "fall out". This pressure increases as your pregnancy nears to an end.

I have this sign too, I felt a heavy pressure.It difficult to stand, walk or lie down .. I think something will fall from my belly.Sometimes when I walked, I will lift up my belly to relieve the burden that I carry ..
Mucous plug and bloody show

You may notice an increase in vaginal discharge, particularly mucousy discharge. You may lose your mucous plug completely or it may break off a little at a time. If you lose your mucus plug and it is tinged with blood, this is considered bloody show. Although not always, labor usually begins within 72 hours of bloody show.

These Two or three days, the mucousy out more often .. but so far there is no discharge of mixed blood or bloody show.

Water breaking

Labor usually begins shortly after rupture of your amniotic membrane .Water breaking may feel like a gush of water or a small trickle. You may even think you have urinated on yourself. If you think you are leaking amniotic fluid or your water has broken, it is important that you call your doctor right away. Most doctors will induce labor if the water has broken and labor has not begun on its own within 24 hours to prevent possible infections or complications.

Contractions

You may notice an increase in Braxton Hicks contractions towards the end of pregnancy. As labor progresses contractions will increase in strength, frequency, and duration. Some general guidelines are to call your doctor once you are experiencing contractions consistently five minutes apart. Consult your physician for specific instructions on when to call and when to head to the hospital. Physicians protocol may vary.

Sometimes,I've felt contractions,But the contractions don't get longer,.Maybe what I've feeling is probably so-called false labor they said.As true labor draws near, Braxton Hicks contractions become relatively painful and strike as often as every 5 to 10 minutes.

Dilation and effacement

Your doctor may be monitoring your progress during the last few weeks of pregnancy. She may tell you that you have begun to dilate or efface. Dilation is the opening of the cervix where effacement is the thinning out of the cervix. Both are a good sign that labor may start soon.

Some women will notice nausea, diarrhea, restlessness, or irritability.

In the 8 sign listed above, only remaining 3 signs that I have to wait ...May all your prayers are always with me..Amin!!!

CountDown | 10 Days To Go

Written by : Unknown | 3:06:00 PM | 1
Lately,so much work to do at office..I even not realize the time will soon come.Apparently the day we waited is almost here..10 days more to count.

Truly indeed, they said , the time passed really fast.I have less than 10 days before the baby born. Probably less if the baby is destined born earlier than expected.

These two three days, it seems a lot of mucus coming out.As cervix begins to dilate,meaning the cervix begins to mature.


Last week,I was busy washing and folding baby's clothes and get ready all the things needed.Alhamdulillah, I am very grateful for optimal health throughout my pregnancy.

I still remember the feeling the first time I knew I was pregnant,feeling the first time I saw something alive inside of mine during the ultrasound screen.

For that I fully understand their feelings that haven't yet have a baby .. One thing I can say, just be patient and keep trying ..Insyallah,your time will come.

Before this, doctors validate my due date is on May 4,..But when I done the ultrasound last week, he said my due date is end of April which is 30 April.There may slip during the day he made estimates..whatever the reason is..

For sure,the doctor said the baby's position is in the right position and ready to go .. And yes ! ..each time I've stand, I felt that my bladder going to exploded..hehehe!!!

Regardless, next week on the 24th is my last appointment..And indeed I can not wait to hug and kiss the baby .. I can imagine the little body in my arms ..

And I pray that everything goes smoothly and safely for both of us..Amin!!!!

"Please don't let my water break at an inopportune time like in the middle of a many people or during my way back home or at a restaurant".

2nd Wedding Anniversary

Written by : Unknown | 3:11:00 AM | 1
And chronicle date appears once again this year ..18th April..
 
Just this year it brings a chronicle of aberration to both of us.Because Insyallah, in less than 17 days to go we will be able to hear the cries of our first baby.

Unlike the previous year, there's were NO celebrations this year .. hmmm.. Means No dinner out, No cake and etc. .. hehe..(Even my 28th Birthday on last March 10,I didn't celebrate it as well..:()

Probably due to my pregnancy and too easily get tired to go out anywhere from home..

Even just want to cooked has become a heavy burden as well for me .. Standing for long periods makes me feel I want to fall to the ground....jejejeje!!!

Can I suppose imagine like that?

Whatever, the excitement this year more than usual and of course sometimes there is a feeling can't not wait for this baby out ..But we need to be patient because we want this baby really mature and there is no health problems before our baby born later..

Hopefully it is safe and running smoothly as planned .. 



Happy 2nd Wedding Anniversary !!! for both of us ..:)
Celebration,Out for dinner,Cake and Gifts will be saved in the coming year ...insyallah!!!

Pregnancy Tips | The Best Brand Of Maternity Set

Written by : Unknown | 4:15:00 PM | 2
Sure many of you that are becoming a mother, right? and I sure is through a period of confinement and a set of maternity or traditional herbal medicine to restore internal health and return to normal shape back again .For those who are not, you also can share with me your ideas.You probably also know, through your mother, sister or friends that already have experienced kan..kan...?

Most of the mothers around me just used this traditional method to back normal again.And I think,I can't afford and won't follow their way..A superb bitter, and for me it is difficult to drink lol..hehehe !!! Gosh !! I just can't imagine ,me take that thing...

So I thought to do the survey, to ask what the best product to used ..You know lah, I'm new in this matter vha..

All right, between the brands listed below, what is the best among the best choice? Just tick or you can also share me your opinion in the comments box provided .. ok?..

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Thanks in advance!!




I had to prepare myself for confinement after giving birth later..because I witnessed myself how the mother do confinement after giving birth ,it is a lot of taboos from various part, where most of the taboos is what I always do..huhuhu:(

It is better to avoid than to cure,right ?

My mom said ,doing confinement,must done it very well..follow very carefully,because it can harm the mother if they just ignore it..I've heard a stories,there is a mothers who have died for not carrying out the correct taboos..Wallahu'alam!

Pregnancy Tips | Do's & Don't s

Written by : Unknown | 12:13:00 PM | 1
Pregnancy tips from early pregnancy until the moment about to give birth for the Future Mommy-To-Be Out there..










Hopefully with this Illustrated Entries will be useful to all ..:)

This morning,I had taken the confirmation letter from the doctor and now will be proceed to make maternity leave application letter,get it ready in advance..hikhik!!!

Accessories Needed Before Baby Arrives

Written by : Unknown | 10:02:00 AM | 1
Speaking of accessories for the little ones,makes me so excited.Although this is my first child, It does not mean I don't know the things needed that must be there before the baby arrives tau..As far as my sister and sister-in-law pregnant, I accompany them to buy essentials for their infants..So that's made me know a bit about this lol ..

I can not wait to buy my coming soon child needs.Called me crazy,because in every month,I've never missed a single things,I must bought something for my baby..hahaha!!!

Don't know why, when I saw the tiny socks it makes me happy..Sometimes made me shed a tears without me realizing it...Perhaps it is normally the maternal instinct in every woman..

Tips for choosing baby products usually focuses on the element of moisture in the product.As well as for myself, I prefer products "Avon Baby Product" because of its fragrant and moist products to baby's skin,non-sticky and scent longlasting.Can't wait to use this product to my little one..jejeje excited :).


This product was launched, since the year 2010.My mother is an active avon representative.So any new product from avon, my mother will promote it to us.. For me...It is baby product that all mommies out there MUST try.....

For the baby, I completed all the accessories and toiletries in a basket..

Here is a list of accessories that I have prepared for the baby so far..
  1. Baby Avon Product (Wash & Shampoo,Lotion,Cologne and soothing oil)
  2. Avon Grooming Kit (comb,nail,& brush )
  3. 10 Baby Clothes Set From Fiffy (T-shirt,Long-Sleeve,Pants,Cap,Mittens,Booties and Bib)
  4. Bedding Set (pillows,bolsters and mattress)
  5. Receiving Blanket & Towels (perfect for keeping your little one warm and dry)
  6. Fiffy Wet Tissue (Specially formulated in a solution to gently clean and moisturize your baby's delicate skin)
  7. Buds & Swabs Cottons.
  8. Cloth & Pampers Diapers.
  9. Eucalyptus or Yu Yee Oil (to avoid and relief of colds)
  10. Johnson Baby Powder (for the baby's body)
  11. Johnson Baby Oil Mild (for the baby's hair)
  12. Diapers Cream (for preventing nappy rash)
  13. Baby Tummy Binders (to keep your new born baby's tummy warm and protected)
  14. Mopiko (Relief of itching and irritation due to mosquito/insect bites)
  15. Bebiku Telon Ointment (Traditionally used for babies to cure puffed-up stomach and to warm up the body after bath)
  16. Vicks Vaporub ( medicine which provides symptomatic relief from blocked nose, cough, muscular aches and pains due to colds)

I've decided to wait for the little baby grow up , then plan to buy baby cot..Afraid later when I buy early but the baby doesn't like to sleep in cot,such a waste kan..Besides,I feel uncomfortable letting the baby sleep in a cot alone..huhuhu..

Am on my Week 35 today..Now that D-day (that's delivery day) is sneaking up on me, I start to get nervous about what a literal pain in the you-know-what it'll be. But instead of focusing on the "OUCH!" of it all, I'll better focus on the "OOOH!" of it.. Meeting my baby for the very first time..

Thats all for today..till my next entry..Thanx for reading!!
I must master the lessons of "HOO-HOO-HOOOO" breathing for now..pray for me guys!

Week 34 | Baby Kick Counts

Written by : Unknown | 10:47:00 AM | 3
I get up so early this past few weeks due to as very active baby toddler kicking in my belly in the morning between 2 to 5 am.Sometimes, very difficult to adjust a comfortable sleeping position at night.If before, I can sleep in many positions that I want.But now, I have to follow the little ones in the belly wants.

Had four night straight, I slept with the left position for whole night.I want to change other position, but can not.. It hurts in me .My husband had to put pillows behind my back for support..

My last appointment at the clinic two weeks ago. Doctors remind me to start counting my little one movement in the week 34.Fetal movement is a reassuring sign that your baby is growing and developing right on track. Fetal movement can be quite variable.

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During pregnancy, sometime between week 18 and week 24, most women begin to notice a fluttering in their bellies. These early signs of fetal movement may at first be confused as simply gas, but actually your growing baby is rocking and rolling inside your belly! They been moving around for awhile, Thinner women tend to feel movement earlier and more often than women who carry more weight.

My doctor said,start counting when I get up in the morning. I should feel at least 10 baby movements by noon (or in about four hours).If I do not reach this number, drink some juice and count for another hour,then you should reach 10.

There are many methods to count baby movement.Another method is to lie down for an hour after dinner, or a time when my baby is most active. I should feel 10 fetal movements in two hours. If I don't, Doctor ask me to go hospital.Remember that healthy babies are active babies.

What does it feel like?

When the baby kicks its like they are saying "Hi MOM " I <3 U..Feeling like popcorn popping,little tickles turn into sharp,a butterflies fluttering, goldfish swimming around,or kicks and jabs! .Sometimes will feel hunger pains in the stomach or gas, but when I start to feel them more often, I will recognize the difference. I could feel these movements when sitting or lying quietly.And when I saw my belly moving like there is something in it (memang ada pun..), I was pleasantly frightened..Sometimes I could feels tiny foot touching mine..It is so cute and wonderful feeling I've ever felt..

So far, my little ones is actively kicking, which means my baby is just fine in there..Alhamdullillah !

According to my doctor, my EDD is on May 4 2012.I really hope that the baby did not come out earlier than expected date.The reason I've about set my maternity leave just enough so that I can take a break after the Eid come..hahaha!!!

Be patient ya sayang ..!! wait until Week 40 ..hehehe..:)

Well that's all for today...I want to find out what food to eat this day..
I sometimes feel unbearable being pregnant .. I'm tired ..But when I thought about it, think again, it felt a moment ago, I have a urine test and shed tears because not believe I am pregnant ..:)

Baby's When Born To The World

Written by : Unknown | 10:48:00 AM | 2
One day a baby is ready to be born into the world.

He asked the Lord: "Angel says that tomorrow you will send me to the world. How do I live there? I was so small & weak?"

And God said: "I chose an angel for you. It will protect and love you."

Baby asked: "But here, in this paradise, what I do is sing, play and laugh. Is this enough for me to be happy."

"Your Angel will sing and smile for you every day. And you will feel the warmth of love and to be more happy"

"And how can I get in when people talk to me if I do not understand their language?"

"Your angel will speak to you with the most beautiful language ever you heard. With patience and attention. She will teach you how to speak."

"What will I do when I want to talk to YOU?"

"Your Angel will teach you how to pray"

"I heard that on Earth a lot of bad people. Who will protect me?"

"Your Angel will protect you. Although it may be threatening their lives"

"I definitely would feel sad for not seeing YOU again."

"Your Angel will tell you about ME, will teach you how so you can return to ME. Though indeed I will always be beside you."

At that moment, heaven was calm and quietness to the voice of the Earth can be heard,baby asked slowly.

"Lord, if I must go now,can you tell me the name of the angel?"

"You will call your angel : " MOTHER ".

My Niece (Pic Taken During 2 Month Old) ..More Pics

Always remember the love and sacrifice of the mother. Worship, pray and love them all the time. She is the only property not stand in hers place beyond our world.

And for mothers, remember this story when are you out of patience with the hassles of children who were growing up. Paradise is under the soles of your feet.

Purify the 4 things with 4 things:

1) Your face with tears conviction,
2) Your tongue moist with the remembrance of the Creator,
3) Your heart to fear and trembling Allah S.W.T greatness, and the sins of the past,
4) Embroidery it with repentance to substances that have you.

Advice for my own self..:)

Thanks To Anon for sent me this ..
Am so touched... It reminds me those infant who was thrown like throwing rubbish by their angels (Mother).The Chosen One who should care for them..They (Mother) who abandoned babies should not be called an angel, but devil..Wallahualam :(

Last Trimester | Week 33

Written by : Unknown | 4:14:00 PM | 0
Entering the last trimester was thrilling.Every second was preoccupied with fighting moments of life.Various things have in mind now.How safe will I be? What would happen to me this time? Easy or hard for me to labor soon? Can I cope with the pain of the most spectacular?..Other women can do it, why can not I do instead?..I can do it as well..!!


Ah, the feeling is really good at playing their role.
Deceive the mind and thoughts.

Heart not so calm now.

Maafkan ku saja deh...:(

"The more complete the preparations,the heart feels like hell.My eyes are getting stuck on a set beg to be brought together, the more fierce this heart beat very fast..The more the eye is reflected in a row of dainty little dress in the special clothes basket, has not retained this faith awaiting for a battle soon. ".

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"Ya Allah, kuatkanlah semangat hamba-Mu ini." amin..

Week 32 | Overweight Increase

Written by : Unknown | 10:56:00 AM | 2

Its been a several days I did not write anything in this blog ..Actually a lot of things I wanna to tell, lots of ideas to be shared and many issues to be peeled right.But there's no mood for typing..hehehe:)

Finally, it almost time.. 8 weeks left.. Some friends told me that usually it will only end at 36 weeks, but I do hope so much that the baby will wait until 40 weeks.. Please…!!

My belly was getting bigger that people began to realize it and they like to touch .. Hehehe .. I remember how I like to touch the belly of pregnant women before.

Good Deeds During Pregnancy

Written by : Unknown | 11:57:00 AM | 3



There's many good deeds mom can practiced during their pregnancy..I've tried all my best to be my baby.Of course,each parents want the baby to be born is a good person and if possible a righteous one...And we're one of them..We want our baby to be born later have a good heart when the grow up..( tak salah kan?..jejeje ).

Among the practices that I've done during my pregnancy is to read Surah Al-Quran.Many friends and my family who gave me this tips.They said this the most good deeds I shall did and its good for moslem mom-to-be out there..

du'a
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Below are the Du'a that are encouraged to be practiced during pregnancy;

Watermelon | Good For Pregnant Mom

Written by : Unknown | 2:47:00 PM | 4


Who likes eating watermelon, raise your hands? A friend sent an email to me this morning and its about favorite foods of the Prophet Muhammad S.A.W .There's one of his favorite foods has attracted my attention.

Want to know what foods I mean? Alright .. continue reading until the end ok..hahaha!!!!

The following are his favorite foods..

Week 29 | Oh ! My Aching Back

Written by : Unknown | 11:02:00 AM | 4


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One of the greatest pain that hit me in the Week 29..To compensate for my weight and bulk that comes out in front, I felt I might sway back in automatically from now. In addition, the feet are placed far apart when walking ( Kangkang suda berjalan).Sometimes I laughed at how I walked now and the same time feel embarrassed by those who saw me..huhuhu :(.

"Watch your weight, wear flat shoes,take your time getting from standing or lying position to standing and back strengthening exercises " said the doctor .

Dizziness Or Illness During Pregnancy

Written by : Unknown | 3:06:00 PM | 10

♥ ASSALAMUALAIKUM ♥

In the joy of my pregnancy now,various kinds of pain I felt daily, among which is unbearable dizziness.Other signs, Alhamdulillah I still can retained.The last time I nausea in 5 days ago.Nauseous? thank God not so bad with other pregnant women out there..Luckily, my work is not how much for the time now.(macam tau2 jak saya ndak sihat..).

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Alhamdulillah, I'm Pregnant! Now

Written by : Unknown | 10:22:00 AM | 12

♥ ASSALAMUALAIKUM ♥

Alhamdulillah ... I got pregnant 6 weeks 5 days on September 14, 2011. Syukur To Almighty, I officially became pregnant women and expectant mothers as well of course. After waiting for nearly half a year, finally Allah S.W.T gave me a chance to get pregnant.


I used to want to have children desperate, was also crying with great drama when menses come. But getting here, the more I enjoy, not to mention a lot to think about the children. My husband even so, he's also not too much to think again about the snack or whatever. important always try and pray. we believe, Only Allah S.W.T most know when we'll have kids.

A few days ago, I have made ​​an entry that says I'm Feelin Unwell for several days. And early signs of pregnancy happened to me.Although I deny it, but my mother more experienced than me..hehehe:).My mother and my husband told me to go to the clinic for medical check-up but I insisted the decision not to go, finally my husband buy me a testpack called Pregnancy Test to determine whether I get pregnant or not.

To pacify everyone, especially my husband.I accede to their request to use the testpack later.Mother told me, in order to do so in the morning after waking from sleep without eating or drinking anything beforehand."Macam manalah nanti kalau result negative , mesti suami saya tidak gembira dan kecewa" I said to myself.

That nights,it is difficult for me to sleep,because I think about these things.My curiosity is high and without a long wait, I did a urine test with which my husband bought testpack yesterday afternoon. Oooouch me so excited and my husband was not awake yet. Annnddddd ... 2 Lines. I'm definitely pregnant (according to testpack) I'm happy, but not too excited. I still wanted to surprise my husband, I do not know until my husband asked for the testpack. However I can not keep a secret from my husband. This time, my husband was thrilled, not only happy but too excited .. lol ... alhamdulillah. but in my heart, I'm not sure if not confirmed the news to the experts.

The next day I stopped into the nearest clinic where I work,so I signed up to make sure my pregnancy ... Thank God the next half hour I go and check here and there, and then examination with transvaginal ultrasound, look at my uterus (which, according to doctors) 6-week-old fetus. My husband more excited and teary.Syukur Alhamdulillah, it turns out I was PREGNANT..Starting today, I can share stories of pregnancy without exception. More stories will be told in the days ahead. Exciting! Have a good prayer from you all.

P/S : Thank To all my supportive blogger's Friends who is concerned with me some days ago..thus advised me to go to the clinic..Love yah guys!!!muahz.


pink01  It seems that I got to be more careful from now on...:)because I already know a lot of taboos during pregnancy..